In the past 6 months I have shared many articles on social media about pro-life and bioethical issues that are most controversial in our world, especially concerning those about abortion and birth control with the occasional post about homosexuality, gender identity, and so-called “same sex marriage.”
It never seems to fail that each time I post, one of my Christian friends privately messages me and thanks me for speaking up and not being afraid for saying what they wish they could say. At first it was random, but lately it’s been a more frequent occurrence. And the verbiage is usually similar – A common theme of fear.
“I’m not brave enough like you to say anything. ”
“It’s so great that you have so much courage to speak up on such controversial issues.”
“I can’t speak up like you do, I’m a wimp.”
Courageous? Brave? It’s strange that people use these words to describe a simple keystroke. I mean, really, how difficult is it to click the word “share?” But what is even more strange is the “fear” that people have in their own hearts.
What are we afraid of? If we know this is truth, what is there to fear?
I suppose the biggest fear is fear of losing an argument. Fear of losing friendships maybe. Fear of looking foolish. Fear of what others think of us.
But something I think we need to be more fearful of is Ignorance. If we don’t stay informed of these pressing issues, then this allows misinformation to spread. And let’s keep in mind one of the Spiritual Works of Mercy is to “Instruct the Ignorant.” So that means, in this Jubilee Year of Mercy issued by Pope Francis, that we not only have a duty to seek the truth ourselves, it means we need to share the truth. (The “ignorant” isn’t meant to be an insulting term here; it simply means the “uninformed.”)
For example, the controversial undercover Planned Parenthood videos:
I have met with and conversed with a few people who have never even seen a minute of any of the undercover video footage from the Center of Medical Progress and journalist David Daleiden. Not surprising when you read that none of the major media outlets gave it more than 39 seconds of coverage.
But just today, a grand jury in Houston has found Planned Parenthood not guilty of any wrongdoing and decided to bring charges up against Daleiden himself. Oh and one of the DA’s is on the board of Planned Parenthood. Sigh…
To those of us in the pro-life movement, this would seem like a huge step backwards, especially considering the March for Life in D.C. and the Walk for Life in San Francisco were so successful.
But see, I think of this as a misstep by Planned Parenthood and the abortion industry. I think, rather, I pray, that this will be their undoing. How?
Because now they will be forced to take the stand. Of course, nothing is going to stop liars from lying, even under oath. But I predict one of these doctors will have a major conversion.
If “Jane Roe” could have a conversion, would it not also be possible that one of these abortion doctors could have one as well?
Today in the Catholic Church we recognize the Conversion of St. Paul. St. Paul had the biggest conversion ever. Like, if there was an award for conversions, this dude would receive the award, hands down. The guy was pretty awful when he was Saul, persecuting followers of Jesus left and right.
Reading about him was one of the catalysts for me when I myself “came back” to the Church after a short departure.
Reflecting on him tonight I can’t help but think, “Wouldn’t it be great if one of these PP docs or workers had a conversion? Wouldn’t it be awesome if they decided to find a way to give life instead of taking it away?”
Do you know what’s stopping them?
Probably the same thing that stops you from sharing or speaking up on controversial topics like abortion: Fear.
They probably have no idea how to leave the industry. Think about it – What would they do if they left? How would they make a living? What would their co-workers think?
Enter the awesome website run by Abby Johnson called And Then There Were None. She seeks to help former abortion workers (yes, even doctors themselves) to leave the industry for good. To date, they have helped approximately 200 workers out of this darkness and on to the path to healing and recovery.
She helps them speak up when they are too afraid.
So let’s set the example and show people we aren’t afraid of a little debate, of a little controversy, of a little action.
We have truth on our side.
- Looking for ways to help the unborn from the inside out? Consider writing a “Love Letter” to abortion clinic workers in your city/state. Before someone can be converted, they need to know they’ll have support when/if they leave. This means we don’t shout obscenities and awful things to them when we stand outside abortion clinics. This means we love them and pray for them. We hate what they do for a living. But we always love them because they are humans and worthy of respect and dignity.
- If you’re looking for simple ways you can help the unborn and promote the pro-life message, here’s a short article from Word on Fire.
- For other helpful websites that speak the truth when it comes to bioethics and the Catholic Church teachings, especially the unborn and human dignity, I recommend the following:
National Catholic Bioethics Center
One thought on “Too Scared to Speak”
Here here. Nice posting. Don’t EVER be afraid to stand for what is right, especially respect for life at all stages. The best way to change others’ minds is with sound reason and by compassionate example.